We’re adjusting to a new normal around here, three weeks post-move. For up to the next 4-5 months the Hubs will be traveling to Orange County each week, leaving Monday afternoon and back Friday night. It is far from ideal, BUT we absolutely knew and accepted that this was part of the deal to bring us back to STL before the baby arrives, so we’re taking it day by day, and week by week. Thank goodness for daily Skype sessions!
M and C started a new preschool the week after we moved, two mornings a week, and the first day of drop-off was great – no tears, no freaking out. I was quite impressed and a bit surprised too, given their history of difficult school transitions, C in particular.
The next school day was a very different story – started the night before with C declaring “I don’t want to go to school”, that she “doesn’t know anyone there” and that “they don’t know me.” This escalated the next day to hysterical crying, shaking and an all around horrible experience at drop-off, which also drove her mama to tears. When they were little I could tolerate crying, no problem. But as they’ve grown up and they can tell us why they are upset, it just breaks my heart to see them like that, and in this instance, to see C so freaked and not wanting me to leave her. So after that gut-wrenching morning, I introduced C to pinky promises. Through her locking that sweet little finger with mine we’ve both agreed to try our best to not cry at preschool drop-off. The school days that followed have been hit or miss, but we’re getting there. I’m so thankful that my girls can and want to express why they feel the way they do – helps us from having to wonder what the heck is going through their little minds and hearts. My sensitive little C… please know that this is an adjustment for all of us, and that this too shall pass.
In addition to school days, we’re getting some solid play time with our cousins and spending time with family. The girls had a play date with their cousin, Zalyn, the first of many I’m sure, and judging by the drive back home I’d say it was a successful afternoon:
We also recently joined the Hubs’ older brother and his family for brunch. The girls were beyond excited to see their cousins over there and oh how I’ve missed the fabulous conversation that comes so naturally with my dear sister-in-law, Joy. There also happened to be a lovely (and thankfully, tame) thunderstorm that rolled through early that afternoon… I couldn’t wait to stand outside, feel the temperature drop and watch mother nature do her thing. You rarely get this in SoCal…
So we’re settling in pretty well… and of course it will all surely change yet again in August with a new baby and a new house, but for now we’re taking it all in. And ending most days with good snuggles, well I have no complaints.